Sunday 3 February 2013

Girl's Point of View about Guys

I have a friend which is a girl. She is a very popular girl in her college, gorgeous, work part-time as a model and, have been in a relationship with a lot of guys. About 1 months ago I hang out with her and we talked a lot about relationship. 
One of the questions that I asked her was "What do you hate the most about guys that trying to hit on you?".
One thing, all the quote here was said by herself and all this is taken from popular girl point of view.

Not being themselves
"There was this guy that trying to hit on me, but he is faking himself. Since he knew that I was into automotive and I like cars, He was trying to follow what I like too. At first I had a hunch that this guy might be lying because when I ask him something related to cars, he didn't really know how to answer it. So eventually we got into relationship, and what made me hate him was he is actually not into cars."

So, what does this tells you? I talked about be yourself to the extreme before, and this is what it means. Girls can tell that you are not yourself and this behavior itself is not interesting at all. It shows that the guy doesn't have any passion that he respect the most and to me, guys without passions = pussy. Even if your passion is playing Skyrim, tell it to the girls. Don't be afraid that they will judge you as a nerd! Even if they do, there are still a lot of girls out there who will like you for who you are IF you put yourself out there from the beginning 

Doesn't respect her
"So it was night around 11pm and I was on my bed when suddenly I received a phone call from this guy. 
He said "Hey can you get outside your house for a minute? I wanna give you something".
And I was like "Can you wait until tomorrow since it's already midnight?"
He said "But I'm in front of your house right now"
So I went out and he gave me a present, but this kind of behavior made me sick of him"

I ask her "Why?"

"Of course, I was on my bed wearing my pajamas getting ready to sleep and he didn't even care about that fact. And I felt that he didn't respect me at all"

Trying to Impress her
"I was on a double date one day with this guy. He drove a car, and sitting beside him is his guy friend. And me and my friend was sitting at the back. 
The guy that was into me suddenly said "Hey there's a black box at the back of the car, could you get it for me?"
So I looked around and found that box and said "Is this what you meant? What do you want me to do?"
He said "Oh it's just a new watch that I bought, so please put it back to the back"
I was like "Eeeeuh, what the hell was that supposed to mean? I can buy that watch myself there's no need to impress me""


Not Prepared
"I was dating with a guy and we were about to watch a movie at midnight. And he suggested that we go get something to eat. Since it was midnight, there were only two restaurant that still open. One was a bar and the other one was a pizza store. Since I don't like to go to a bar, he choose the pizza store. We sat down and ask me to order. What surprised me was he didn't order anything. So I was eating my food while he only drank his lemon tea. What I hate was if he didn't have the money, then he should not ask me out at the first place. In the end I said "That's okay I will pay for my food and I will pay for your drinks too""

What I want to say here is not about the money, money, money. We don't need your money.
Anyway, what I want to say is all about preparation. Before you go out on a date, make sure you prepared yourself well. If you don't have the money, just said "Hey I was short on money, so let's go get something cheaper to eat" OR "Let me get the movie ticket and you get the food". It shows that you are confident in what you are doing rather that try to act all rich and in the end you get Dat Sinister Looks.

Unhygienic 
"I really hate a guy that unhygienic. It doesn't matter whether he drive a Ferrari or whatever expensive cars that he had IF I'm inside the car and it stinks. And that itself is enough to give me an ill-feeling towards any guy. You don't have to have an expensive clothes and car. In fact I dated a guy before that he knew how to dress really well and nice even though it's not from the expensive brand. And in fact I really like a guy that know how to dress well and nice in front of me"

This point shows that actually looks don't matter. What matter is hygiene. Even I as a guy would get a turn off if I talk to tall hot woman with a bad breath. So rather on worrying how miserable is your face, worry more on how hygiene you are before you go out