Field Report

Hey guys, this HERE, is my very own personal diary. Well its not personal anymore since I have published it LOL. But at least it is my very own field report. I want to have microphone and video if possible but sadly its not possible. Its too expensive for a student like me to afford... Anyway less talk more show.

ENJOYY!!!!!

First 3 weeks (start from beginning of July)
Only managed to get 1 number from china girl in my campus ground. Her name is mong yun, 2nd year. I said I was having my lunch,  I saw her, she looks cute so I had to talk to her. No comfort or attaraction. Instant number close because she was rushing to class.  In the end I don't contact her because I think she is not that pretty

1/8/2012
First number close today from a fucking hot singaporean girl in ION. Her name is j**mine and she is 25 yrs old and working as marketing casino or some sort. Talk to her for like 15 min. Get a mini instant date, she asked me to take her to go to wheelock place. I said im not interested in BF GF relation but I want a date. She said she will try to arrange that for me (sounds as if she pity me). Got her number and say goodbye. 

Second number close from a rushing girl. Her name is v**on and when I approached, she was in a rush to the gym. Then I said you are not that fat, why go to then gym.. As usual, only attraction and NO comfort. Number close in like 3 min of conversation.

4/8/2012
First number closed from 2 sets that I open alone. I was sarging with 2 friends, Kenny and Izzat. Saw this 2 cute girls. Approached her and dang, they are from china. The one that I'm interested is very shy.. Luckily her friend didn't cockblocked me. She step aside when I said I want to talk to her. Anyway, her name is c**lsea. and I said I want to hang out with her. She gave me a lot of excuse and in the end she said we should texting first. as usual, not building any comfort.

First real instant dates bitches... I pointed Kenny to approach a girl. Wow, his way is very rough, this girl dressed in a very simple fashion. shirt, jeans, sport shoes, and backpack. He fucking grab her bag and touch her shoulder. I though he will sure get rejected but Kenny managed to talk to her for like 5 min. Meet up with Kenny again, and he told me that I should go for her because she is from Indonesia and he doesn't really like her face. Shit, but I love her cute face. Finally I decided to re-open her as Kenny about to go back home. She was sitting inside restaurant and I said " Hi, can I sit here?" She said yes so I sit down. "You met my friend just now but now he went home already. so I'm alone and you are alone. Lets just have a good chat" she said yes, I introduce myself and dang she is actually a hardcore gamer. FUCKING HARDCORE... really can't tell from her face. Sit down for like 2 hour wait for her dinner to finish. Then I try to shuffle, she bring me to a comic connection, sword shop, and lastly I asked her to enter a game arcade
I asked her to watch spider man next week, but she said cannot because she is busy with university project.  We exchanged numbers and said goodbye to her

5/8/2012
My first number close for today was from a Taiwanese girl. Her name is angel, 20 years old working at Fullerton hotel at restaurant department. When I approached, she was on her phone. She said she is calling her BF, but I dont care and keep talking. I don't know whether she closed the phone but during our conversation for 15min+, she is not talking on her phone. Asked her to meet me again, she said she is busy with work and always tired. even though I get her number.

Another number close from a fucking hot girl. I was walking outside Cineleisure with Vynn, and she was with her friend. So its 2 sets. I open, then her friend try to cockblocked me. But lucky my wingman can stop her a little bit. Then the cockblocked bitch tell us, she is looking for zara and that they are from Indonesia. So its like instant connection for me. She asked me for my number first.. the conversation doesn't last for more than 5 min, because her friend is super cockblock. But at least I got her number and I got this feeling that she will text me

Last number close for today. From a smoking hot girl. she is very tall, and actually a mix of british and hong kong. her name is Ho**ie... western people is really easy to talk to, but I didn't build enough comfort. Even though I get her number.

6/8/2012
Met this girl called S**w Siang, she is a malaysian, 28 yrs old. She is working in import export department as office girl. Talk to her for like 15 mins, exchange contact and I said I want to meet her again. Anyway, I learnt my lesson, to always build comfort after 3min + of attraction. 

7/8/2012
Met this girl called p**rly. She looks nice and that's the reason I approached her. She is actually a customer service officer. After talk for like 10 min+, we exchange contact and I told her I want to hangout with her. She is the 15th contact I got.

Met this girl called L*na. She was selling something as her work and a very shy girl. While talking with her for 5mins, her friend came. A guy, looks really angry for some reason (just a random douche bag).
"Is she your girlfriend?" I asked
"No" He said
"Great" 
"What are you doing" He asked kinda angry
"I'm talking to her"
"why?"
"she's cute, I want to talk to her"
then he fuck off (LOSERRR).
Talk to luna for another 5 mins, then she told me "my boss is calling me" (her boss is the douche bag from earlier)
I said I want to meet her again and she gave me her facebook. I can get her number if I want, but her boss is staring at me and her. Today was my first time dealing with guys in a set, so I'm a little bit scared.

8/8/2012
Okay, I don't know what to say, but it's like the saddest day of my life.
So I did a usuall warm up, the girl seems nice and dang, mini instant date at the first try. Her name is a** he, she is from china and she's going back to china tomorrow. So there was no point in getting her number.

Next is 2nd approach and dang, hug n number close. Her name is o**via, she is like 1/4 Spanish and from china. Her body is HOT as fuck. my opener was "STOP, YOU ARE VERY CUTE, I had to meet you". Talk with her for like 15 mins, and yes, closed with hug as bonus.

Join up with Vynn, Izzat, and Cheng... we did a revision. Next we saw 2 cute girls. so I'm winging Vynn. The girl that I talked to is super cute. Her name is k**stel, she is 18 years old JC girl. We talked for like a freaking 25 min. I BUILD SO MUCH FUCKING ATTRACTION AND COMFORT WITH HER, but I couldn't closed it. Vynn close the other girl though. Funny things, the loser guy from yesterday with his friends try to cockblock us. They interrupt vynn, and asking vynn's target for numbers. LOSER. and, they even contact the girl, said "be careful of those 2 men" (HATERS GONNA HATE), but man, they are ultra loser I don't know what else to say.

Anyway, the point is, I felt wasted because I made so many comfort, attraction and I still cannot close. But oh well, shit just happens sometimes..

Lesson of the day : Display your intentions early

11/8/2012
Today, a new guy come to join us. His name is kenneth, first year student from the same school as me. It  was a harsh day, took like 2-3 hours just to reach GOD MODE...
First number close, from a girl from Shanghai, don't even remember her name anymore. Not really a good conversation. I thought if I got her number I can enter GOD mode, but sadly no.

So second number close made me GOD MODE. Her name is p**rlyn. I thought she was like 19 years old but turn out that she still secondary 4. She was a Christian but not much info I got from her.

Last number close from 2 set. Vynn was my wingman. She is from the same school as me, 2nd year, her name is A**il. Ex-sports girl, social smoker. Still I try to comfort but not much attraction to begin with.. Number closed.

After that, me and Izzat went to a club. We met a PUA called Dev, he is a nightgamer. But Club is like hell to me. The music is so FUCKING LOUD, I can't talk at all. Try to shout, but in the end my throat hurts. The lighting sucks, made my eyes blind.. Overall, nightgame sucks in Singapore.

Lesson of the day : Try to build attraction by leaving bigger pause, non reactive, vocal projection.... 
Comfort by asking deeper question, not just what is your passion. Find out 10 things that make you know about her.

13/8/2012
First number and only number close , from a girl called K**la. It was a very solid. I did a lot of comfort or maybe attraction and talk for like 20 min.

15/8/2012
Okay, today another guy from US joined us. His name is Nicholas... So anyway, I got 1 number closed. It was very solid. She stand really close to me. Her name is l**ise from NTU. I did a lot of attraction and I can see that she is interested. However, maybe not enough comfort.

Lesson to learn : try to ask deeper question like related to family. How many siblings you have? Which one is the closest?

16/8/2012
Okay, worst day in my life. I was okay in the morning, but I got fucking flu allergic in the afternoon. Keep on sneezing like dick, drank a medicine and I felt sleepy. Sarge with Vynn today. I got rejected by everybody.  And yes, i mean EVERY SINGLE GIRLS... I didn't know why, either you don't met with the right person or my skill decrease because of a fucking flu. Anyway, I tried to stop a girl without saying anything and yes, it works. Remember paralinguistic.

18/10/2012
Hey guys, it's been a long time since I write another field report. As you can see from the date, I was having hibernation for like 2 months. So I was as rusty as shit, could not talk properly, stiff body, and all the shit you can think off. Today, I'm sarging with Vynn and a new member, Aaoroson. He is from the same school as Vynn.
Anyway today I got 1 number closed from a girl called A**ce. She speaks proper english, so made her looks even cuter. Anyway at first I was not so confident, I didn't know what to talk but as we talk for like 5 minutes, it felt like I regain back all my "game". I talk smoothly with persistence of course and did a number closed.
Anyway, lesson for today is, NOT TO USE TOO MUCH BRAIN FART... and don't think too much on what to say. As in don't "Ummm......." Felt like every time I did that, the girl will immediately fuck off.

22/10/2012
Damn, today it's like a double punishment day for me. First of all, I was in the "noob mode" for the first half of the day. Not confidence and all, while my friends, Vynn, was already closing one or two. Then I took a rest, listen to "Simple PickUp" video, and somehow enter a partial "God Mode"... Anyway, I was talking to this ultra cute girl, and she resembles so much of my old crush when suddenly another daygamer COCKBLOCKED me. First time happened in my life so I didn't really know what to do. But I did close the girl. She is from NTU, and despite her cute looks, she is actually a gamer.
Next punishment comes in a row, was when I was talking to this girl, another asshole comes out of nowhere and try to interview her. And I swear to angels and whatever that is holy, that this is so fucked up as I got blocked TWO TIMES IN A ROW...
Fortunately, my genius mind find a way that will lessen the chance of being COCKBLOCKED. And it's called shuffling. I will talk about it later in my blog.

26/10/2012
Today, my friend came over to Singapore and so I met with him. At the beginning of the day, there was nothing much going on about pick up. We just walk around town, look for a shops and those usual things. Anyway, as I was not in a pickup mode, I just behave like a normal. But sudenlly an "ok cute girl" walk pass and if I didn't take this chance, I will never be able to see her again. So I approached her and BOOM, turns out that she was easy to talk to. So we did chat like 30 mins, we talked about anything, start from school, left 4 dead, and obviously I'm trying to make a connection by asking a deep questions. Anyway I did close the girl.

28/10/2012
I didn't approach a lot today. I just approached 2 girls and did 1 number close. I'm using a low energy opener.
"Hi........ You are cute............. I had to meet you"
And it works Ok, we talked about some boring stuff and she was like "Do you want my number?"

29/10/2012
I did my first approach today and it turns out to be INSTANT DATE, FUCK YEA... She is from Korea and don't really speaks English. But I like her sense of humor. I try to lead and she followed my lead. In the end we are about to go to the haunted house and it closed. So yeah, fuck that part.

Second number close comes from a Mongolian girl but she grew up in German. I can tell she is interested in me and she said "I'll give you my number and we can hang out sometimes".

4/11/2012
Not much happened today. I didn't get any number closed. But I did improved myself by approaching a shop assistant. It all happened at one of the most popular clothes brand. The shop assistant was a French girl. At first it was okay.
Me : hey, so....I walk by.... I saw you... Though you are cute... So I wanna say hi.
She : Thank you
Me : What is your name?
She : A**est ( she was a french)
The rest of the conversation didn't go well because of the shop's music is like a club. Fucking LOUD.
So anyway, I become more confident about approaching a shop assistant.

8/11/2012
I was totally energetic today, because it's been a long time since I was sarging... I was in a God Mode mind set so it was easy for me to approach. I closed 1 girl today. She was standing next to a dust bin while smoking. I approached her and said "Hey so, I was walking with my friends.... and I saw you here... So I ditch my friends and come to meet you. Because you have a fucking hot body". And she was like "thank you".. I chat with her and she did mostly all the talking. In the end, I got a hug closed.

Another thing happened today. Haters gonna hate. Me and Vynn was opening a 2 sets. We got rejected. And there was this man looking at us. Straight after the rejection, we open another 2 sets. At the middle of conversation, the man barged in and said "This is a trick"... We were being reactive by looking at the man. Thus the girls were walking away. So lessons for today is Do NOT Be Reactive.

12/11/2012
Damnnn, today, I was attending my friend birthday party and we were eating at a Korean restaurant. I was so bored at the beginning because nobody has come yet. So I decided to go outside the restaurant to get some fresh air. When suddenly, a cute girl walk passed me. Immediately I approached her. I did my normal opening, and display my intentions clearly. She was very shy but I can see that she was attracted to me. When I said, I wanna meet you again,,, she replied with "Okayy, but may I know what's your age?" And after that she kept asking me question like "which school am I from", etc. In the end, I left my phone in the restaurant,, so I ask her to call my phone. The stupid moment was that, I don't have any balance in my phone. $0 balance, so that means nobody can call you. Fuck the telephone provider. She called me but didn't listen to the phone, so she thought that she missed call my phone already. In the end I just realized this things later at night. So yeah, Fuck my phone

18/11/2012
I went to the nearest mall with my roomate today to get a lunch. We ate there and about to go home. And it happends that a petite cute girl walk towards my direction and enter a makeup shop. I immediatly enter the shop and
Me : Hiii, I was walking by this shop, I saw you, thought you are cute. So I had to meet you. Andrew..
Her : Ohhh thank you, Sh* Ting
Me : So what are you celebrating right now?
Her : I'm buying present for my friends
Me : I'm guessing that your friends do a lot make up
Her : Yea...
Me : You know, let's go out and talk outside

I can't really remember what's the rest of the conversation since I don't really expect to approach on my way home from lunch. But she is kinda pyhscho I think because she likes "gore" movie and said that she got depressed when she didn't see blood @_@

To the core of the day
I knew this guy from a forum and we decided to meet up today. At first me and my friends thought that we are somewhere near the best in Singapore,, until... we met these guys from the forum. There are 2 of them. Zach and Danish. Zach is a Singapore but he's been living in America. Danish is a Russian and has A LOT of confidence. Their skill and confidence level is 10x of me and my friends. We learnt a lot from them, And I will post the result in the Audio Field Report's page

24/11/2012
Today, I went out with Vynn, Zach, and  T.Y, and got a good results. This is supposed to be in the Audio Report page, but my recorder ran out of battery. So I am not able to record it. We are sitting at the food court when suddenly a cute girl walk past. So Vynn ask me to go, and I go. The girl was choosing what food to buy. Anyway, this is the break down
Me : Excuse, I need to tell you something really quickly
Her : Yes?
Me : You look really nice
Her : This must be a dare right
Me : No! I wanna say hi to you. Andrew... Who are you?
Her : LOL, Shar****
Me : Is that a popular name now? There are so many people with that name ( I actually just met a lot of girls with the same name as her today)
Her : No it's not ( Her reply is cold, but I can see that she smiled and her body language is good, so I persisted)
Me : So, what are you celebrating right now?
Her : I'm working
Me : Work on Saturday? You must be working at bank
Her : No
Me : Ok tell me then what is it.
Her : Why don't you guess?
Me : I'll take 3 guess, and if I got it right, you are going to have a coffee with me
Her : Maybe
Me : (I got it right somehow) So, we are going to have a  coffee sometimes this week
Her : I'm working at the week is almost over
Me : So we are going to get the coffee tomorrow then
Her : Maybe, if you can find me here
Me : Ok, I'll take your number and find you here tomorrow
Her : Why should I give you my number?
Me : Because 1. I don't want to waste my time by going to look for something that I might not get
Her : But you want a coffee with me, so you should put some effort (fucking shit test)
Me : I did put some effort already.
        1. I did approach you here
        2. I am talking to you right now
        3. I struggle to keep this conversation going
Her : (Ignore me by taking her food to a table)
Me : (Keep standing where I stand and just shout to talk to her) Okay we will just be talking from here
Her : What are you doing?
Me : (So I did come to her and take a sit)
Her : So what is your proposal again?
Me : 1. I'll take your number
        2. I'll send you a text. If it makes a bad impression, you can just delete it. Or if it doesn't then you can    reply to it and we are going to get a coffee
Her : Okay, if you can make me through your text

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