Merry Christmas and Happy New Year people!!
It's been a few weeks since I haven't write a post because of Holiday! Even I have to take a holiday right.
Anyway I've been reading all my posts lately and I just realized that I haven't write any post regarding "How to get this specific girl" even though at the beginning I said I will write about it. So, starting from now, I want to write a lot on "How do you get this special person"
However, before that, I want to talk about the differences between "Pick Up" and "Getting This Special Person" (GSP)
Pick Up
Pick Up is when you see a girl, you talk to her, get her number, arranged a date, and lastly fuck her or whatever you want to do. Basically when both of you start with a "0". Means that you both don't know each other before. You build a connection, make her attracted and comfortable thus she is willing to know about you. It used techniques to seduce the girls and of course, it is effective. Chances are, if you picking up girls, you are not trying to get into a relationship. You might just want to have "fun". But that's what all guys are thinking anyway.
GSP
GSP on the other hand, is when you already know this girl. It could be from school mate, church friends or whatever. You have befriend with her and decided to take the relations further because you fell in love with her. You start by texting her every day and ask her to meet up and eventually you both are in a relationship. The difference is in GSP, you want to get into relationship while Pick Up is just looking for "fun" although it is also possible that you want to get into relationship through Pick Up. And to be honest, there are no techniques involved in GSP, but of course some Pick Up technique can be put inside
Above is the general line of Pick Up and GSP. Why is it important to know the differences?
Because what I realized is that you Can't use Pick Up style in GSP and vice versa.
I learned that if you use GSP's style in Pick Up, you aren't going to success because it will be too slow to get the girl and she might get bored of you because you are just a random strangers.
On the other hand, if you use Pick Up's style in GSP, it will comes out too strong. It will work in some cases but it might not work on another cases.
So different cases need a different approaches
Anyway I've been reading all my posts lately and I just realized that I haven't write any post regarding "How to get this specific girl" even though at the beginning I said I will write about it. So, starting from now, I want to write a lot on "How do you get this special person"
However, before that, I want to talk about the differences between "Pick Up" and "Getting This Special Person" (GSP)
Pick Up
Pick Up is when you see a girl, you talk to her, get her number, arranged a date, and lastly fuck her or whatever you want to do. Basically when both of you start with a "0". Means that you both don't know each other before. You build a connection, make her attracted and comfortable thus she is willing to know about you. It used techniques to seduce the girls and of course, it is effective. Chances are, if you picking up girls, you are not trying to get into a relationship. You might just want to have "fun". But that's what all guys are thinking anyway.
GSP
GSP on the other hand, is when you already know this girl. It could be from school mate, church friends or whatever. You have befriend with her and decided to take the relations further because you fell in love with her. You start by texting her every day and ask her to meet up and eventually you both are in a relationship. The difference is in GSP, you want to get into relationship while Pick Up is just looking for "fun" although it is also possible that you want to get into relationship through Pick Up. And to be honest, there are no techniques involved in GSP, but of course some Pick Up technique can be put inside
Above is the general line of Pick Up and GSP. Why is it important to know the differences?
Because what I realized is that you Can't use Pick Up style in GSP and vice versa.
I learned that if you use GSP's style in Pick Up, you aren't going to success because it will be too slow to get the girl and she might get bored of you because you are just a random strangers.
On the other hand, if you use Pick Up's style in GSP, it will comes out too strong. It will work in some cases but it might not work on another cases.
So different cases need a different approaches