Be Direct !!!

Time for the weekly updates!!! Today, I'm gonna talk about being Direct!
Being direct means Displaying Intention Clearly.
Let's take an example of you want to get to know this person.
By being direct you will be like "Heyyy, so I wanna get to know you!"

Now a lot of people questioned "Why should I be direct?", "Isn't that embarrassing?", and whatever you can think of. Now there are a lot of points on "Why should I be direct", and they are





Clear Doubts

The good things about being direct is that it clear your target's doubt.
Let's say you are in a class, and you see your "perfect target" and you wanna get to know him/her. The average joe will be like just sit at the corner, pretend they are like the coolest person on earth by being silent and not talking to anybody. And in the end, that average joe didn't get a chance at all to talk to his/her target.

The second case is the same as the above, but this time Mr.Joe try to sit next to her. And he's not being direct because he doesn't know what to say and he's trying to diffuse the awkwardness.
So he said something like "Umm... hey, can I borrow your pencil?".
She might give you the pencil but she will most likely thinks something like "What the Fuck does this guy needs a pencil for?"
In the end, she gave the pencil but that's it, because Mr.Joe comes from a place where he is not genuine about communication. Maybe he can still get close to his target, but it will take some times before his target genuinely wants to know him.

Last case, is still the same as above, but this time instead of asking "Can I borrow your pencil?" which is LAME, he is being direct by saying "Actually this is not my favorite chair, but you look really nice, so I gotta sit here to get to know you." You might think this is awkward at the first time, but Girls especially, like this. Furthermore, it clears her doubt of "Why the fuck does this guy sit next to me out of all the empty chair out there?"
She knows that you sit here so you can get to know her, so you can start genuine conversation directly. You can start by "What do you do for fun?" without her thinking "Why does he want to know that?"


Like a Baws
When you do direct, all girls will love it. Why? Because in their psychology, girls want to meet the "alpha male". A male that is confident and able to protect them. When you do direct, it shows to them that you are confident, you don't care what other people think of you, and you go for what you want. Therefore this traits are attractive to them. 



                                                                          Save Time

The most important point I would say. When you go direct, some girls will like you and some are just don't. Now think about it like this, let's say you go indirect, ask for "Can I borrow your pencil" or whatever topic you can think of. And you talk for 15 minutes, and after 15 minutes, you finally display your intention to her. You like her and you had to meet her. In the end she said something like "Ohhhh but I have a boyfriend.". How does it feels? Fuck... You talk with her for 15 minutes and in the end you get "I have a boyfriend" response.

Now think if you are going direct. You tell her your intention at the very first second you meet her. She gives you the "I have a boyfriend" response. So what now? You just have to walk away knowing that she is taken. Save 15 minutes of your life. And in that 15 minutes, you can actually meet maybe 2 - 3 more girls.