Today, I want to talk about topic that I have never talk about it before. Texting!!!
Texting is an important part that has been neglected by a lot of people. Some of them may say it's useless because you can't fuck a phone or something like that. However, in my opinion it is not true. Yes, you can't fuck a phone, but you can use your phone to help you fuck somebody.
This week I'll just tell you about the basic general rule that I have been doing and it helps me a lot in texting
1. It is OKAY to initiate first
Some girls like to stay the old fashioned way, which is play hard to get. The good thing about play hard to get is, she is more than likely to like you. That's why she is playing hard to get. Therefore it is always okay to initiate a text first. However, do not initiate like 5 text in a day. It is needy as fuck
2. It is OKAY to start with a boring topic
Most people will said "Do not start with a boring topic, girls get that a lot". But I disagree with that and said boring topics are okay especially if you just know her. It let her to reply with a semi programmed reply. But if you are good and able to make the topic interesting later on, she will be much more comfortable with you. So I would say boring topic is good to make her comfortable with you early on.
3. Do NOT always let her end the conversation
If she keep on ending the conversation first, it shows that the ball is on her side. It's not really a big deal though. But think about like she has the power to end the text. It's like you are still interested in texting her, but she isn't anymore. Therefore you are like giving away your power to her. And it's not attractive. So the next you realize she always did this. Try to end your text first even if you still want to text her.
4. Be wary of shit test
Girls will be more daring in text rather than in real life. Therefore, she will give you more shit test than usual. For those of you who don't know what's a shit test, it's basically girl's way of selecting which guy is more attractive. They might do this consciously or unconsciously.
Example
Girl : Why didn't you open me the door yesterday?
Now, most guys will be reactive here and reply with
Guy : OMG!! I'm so sorry, I didn't know that I have to do that
This is bad, because you don't stand on your ground. You get sucked to her reality and therefore it is not attractive
5. Keep your text short AND concise
Obviously, you don't want to send her a paragraph and make it like a pain in the ass for her to read your text. And generally, shorter text cover less topic, so it would help you to text her a lot more time.
That's all for this week guys. Next week, I'll cover more texting in detail!
6. Don't put too much "haha"
Sometimes we want to put a sarcastic text like "Does it change anything if I pick you up with my Ferrari?". But we are not sure whether she will get our message? What if she thought if it is too cocky and not funny? Well the answer is, you just send it. It does not matter whether she will get it or not. Putting "haha" in your text will make you looks insecure. Because you are trying to make her get your message. So, my advice it to stop putting "haha" everywhere in your text. Leave that job to girls
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