Saturday 8 December 2012

Silences



You are talking to this person that you like. You both enjoy it, but you ran out of things to say. Familiar with that? And there was this "silence" going on. You panicked and screwed things up.

So I'm here to help you break this silence. But before that, I wanna tell you that there are 2 types of silence.
Comfortable silence and Awkward silence.

Comfortable silence
This is they type of silence that you actually want it. The silence of passion. If you watched romantic movies, where the actor and actress are going for the kiss, they had this silence before they kiss. It is a type of silence that actually shows that you are comfortable with the silences. And by being comfortable with the silences, it actually build a sexual tension. Sexual tension is some force of nature that make your heart beats really fast because you know you are going somewhere with the girl. It's really hard to explain by words but if you watch some romantic movies, you should be able to feel the tension that the actor and actress have before they are going for the kiss.

Awkward silence
On the other hand, there is this "Awkward" silence. This is the silence that will FUCKED your time with her. You are talking to this girl, the conversations getting nowhere. You tried to think as many conversations topics as you can, you blurted out the wrong things, and this silence came.

Example,
Guy : Uhhh so how was your day?
Girl : Yeah it was good, I was bla bla bla (While the guy is thinking about another conversation topic)
Guy : Ohhh cool, cool. So let's eat. What do you like for dinner?
Girl : Up to you hahaha (While the guy is thinking about another conversation topic)
Guy : Up to you too hahahaha. Oh that is a good store you wanna come inside?
Girl : No it's not that good
Guy : Yeah true, true, it was not that good.

And the conversations here is not getting anywhere and the dreaded silence came. You ran out of things to say and she doesn't feel comfortable.

Girl : Let's go home, I'm tired
Guy : Yeah sure sure. T_T

The conversation above showed that the girl is actually not comfortable with the guy. And she said "let's go home" but subconsciously she is saying "This is Awkward". And by agreeing with what the girl said, the guy subconsciously saying "Yesss, this is Awkward"

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