Text

Today, I want to talk about topic that I have never talk about it before. Texting!!!
Texting is an important part that has been neglected by a lot of people. Some of them may say it's useless because you can't fuck a phone or something like that. However, in my opinion it is not true. Yes, you can't fuck a phone, but you can use your phone to help you fuck somebody.

This week I'll just tell you about the basic general rule that I have been doing and it helps me a lot in texting

1. It is OKAY to initiate first
Some girls like to stay the old fashioned way, which is play hard to get. The good thing about play hard to get is, she is more than likely to like you. That's why she is playing hard to get. Therefore it is always okay to initiate a text first. However, do not initiate like 5 text in a day. It is needy as fuck

2. It is OKAY to start with a boring topic
Most people will said "Do not start with a boring topic, girls get that a lot". But I disagree with that and said boring topics are okay especially if you just know her. It let her to reply with a semi programmed reply. But if you are good and able to make the topic interesting later on, she will be much more comfortable with you. So I would say boring topic is good to make her comfortable with you early on.

3. Do NOT always let her end the conversation
If she keep on ending the conversation first, it shows that the ball is on her side. It's not really a big deal though. But think about like she has the power to end the text. It's like you are still interested in texting her, but she isn't anymore. Therefore you are like giving away your power to her. And it's not attractive. So the next you realize she always did this. Try to end your text first even if you still want to text her.

4. Be wary of shit test
Girls will be more daring in text rather than in real life. Therefore, she will give you more shit test than usual. For those of you who don't know what's a shit test, it's basically girl's way of selecting which guy is more attractive. They might do this consciously or unconsciously.

Example
Girl : Why didn't you open me the door yesterday?

Now, most guys will be reactive here and reply with
Guy : OMG!! I'm so sorry, I didn't know that I have to do that

This is bad, because you don't stand on your ground. You get sucked to her reality and therefore it is not attractive

5. Keep your text short AND concise
Obviously, you don't want to send her a paragraph and make it like a pain in the ass for her to read your text. And generally, shorter text cover less topic, so it would help you to text her a lot more time.

That's all for this week guys. Next week, I'll cover more texting in detail!

6. Don't put too much "haha"
Sometimes we want to put a sarcastic text like "Does it change anything if I pick you up with my Ferrari?". But we are not sure whether she will get our message? What if she thought if it is too cocky and not funny? Well the answer is, you just send it. It does not matter whether she will get it or not. Putting "haha" in your text will make you looks insecure. Because you are trying to make her get your message. So, my advice it to stop putting "haha" everywhere in your text. Leave that job to girls

Have Fun!

A lot of people forget the most important things in life. They all go out just for the sole purpose of picking up girl. I won't say this is completely wrong, but this method is not effective. 

Why?

Because you put a weight on yourself. You go out with the mindset of picking up girls, getting their number, and so on.

The best way if you want to pick up girls is to have fun!

When you are having fun with yourself, girls can sense that. Therefore she will be more attracted to you. 

I have tried go out just for the sake of picking up girls, and the result wasn't really good. Especially if I didn't get any numbers, I will start beating myself out. Eventually as the day coming to an end, my morales would go down even lower, resulting in no numbers at all.

On the other hand, If you go out to have fun with your friends, or making fun of everything, you will have a different feeling inside you. You will feel happy and confidence. Therefore, when you see a hot girl you want to talk, you can just approach her immediately. When you are having fun with yourself, girls can sense that. Therefore she will be more attracted to you. 
Sure you might get a little bit nervous, but I've told the baby steps on how to not get nervous. http://orangepua.blogspot.com/2013/03/stop-being-nervous.html

Anyway here's something that I did to have fun when I go out with friends

1. Compliment Others
As simple as it sounds. You go out, and when you see something that catches your eyes, compliment it.
For example, you see a dude with colorful Mohawk rocket hair or whatever it is. Go out to him and just says "Dude, your hair is awesome!". It helps you to get over your Approach Anxiety and at the same time get happy with yourself.
When you make others people happy, you yourself will felt happy as well. And it's not a bad thing to make someone's day.


2. Make Yourself Awkward
This is a good thing to get over Approach Anxiety and to have fun. Simple, just make yourself looks awkward in front of other people. You can do push up in the middle of the Mall or whatever things that will makes yourself look awkward. It's good especially if you have your friends tagging along. You guys will have fun and you won't give a shit anymore about what others think of you

3. Prank
This is my favourite. Basically, just go out to prank other people. My favourite is what Sasha told us. Go to the grocery store and buy something. And in the end just said "I don't have money!".
Or go to the boutique and says "How much is that? that? that?". And in the end just says "I don't have money!"
There are a lot of things you can do. You will enjoy the excitement and this will boost your confidence. 
Trust me!

Stop Being Nervous

Hey it's been like 3 months since I wrote another post. I've been busy with my life especially during my exam time.
But it's over now. So I'll continue writing posts. Anyway that's not what I want to talk about today.


Today, I'll be talking about How Do You Deal With Nervousness

We all know that nerveous sucks. It made you lose your chance be it with girls or whatever.
So now I'm going to give you a few tips that works for me.

1. Accept it
Accept the fact that you are nerveous to talk to this cute girl. But do not let it overcome you. Which means, if you are nerveous, accept that you are feeling nerveous now.
But just go for the girl you want to talk to. It might give you a heart attack at first, but overtime you will learn that it is not as scary as it seems. And your nervous is gone.
I know this is when people said easier said than done, but give it a try.
So the next time you are in a class or wherever and you see a girl you want to talk to, remember that you are nerveous but it will go away.

2. Think you are a Baws

This is my favourite. Basically, think about it like this, when you approach a girl, people will look at you.
They might think "Oohhh, he's hitting on a girl!!", but who cares.
When people look at you, they are actually giving you respect, because they can't do what you just did.
So, I really like when people admire me in that way. Therefore I'll get a boost in my confidence and I can go to talk to a girl.

An easy way to get people to notice you, is by bringing your friend. Talk to the hottest girl in front of your friend. Even if you get rejected, your friend will be like "DUDE, OMG YOU ARE SO BAWS!!". And you'll get the boost in confidence.

3. Body Language
Ever heard your psychology follows your physiology? 
Basically says when you have a good body posture, you will have a better confidence. I'll be very brief here as I'll cover it in another post. 

When you are walking, try to 
- Relax your shoulder
- Chin's Up
- Back's Straight
- Not put your hands inside pocket
- Not cross your arm

Do this and you'll get a boost in your confidence and the air around you will feel better
4. Quote
Simple, put quotes inside your head.
My favourites are :
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take." ~ Wayne Gretzky

"Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover. "         ~ Mark Twain

"If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place."           ~ Nora Roberts

They all saying, If you don't try to step out of your comfort zone you will stay the same. Even if you fail miserably, at least you have done something that you won't regret. 

Think about when you are 70 years old. You will look back to your past and what you will regret is not something that you done. But it is something that you NEVER done.