What is Comfort?!

The question is, "Is attraction alone enough?" Have you ever think about this question? Some of you might think it is enough, some of you might think it is not. Well to me, the answer is NO...

First of all, let's talk about what is comfort. Have you ever felt like "Ohh this person understands me" or "I felt like I can talk anything to this person"... If you do, then that is comfort. Basically, it is a feeling of comfortable (DUHHH..) of being with somebody...

If you have a friend, and you felt like you can talk about anything to your friend, it means that you are comfortable with them. It does not matter, whether your friend is a guy or a girl. The point is, if you are able to talk or share anything with them, that is Comfort.

Without comfort, you are just like a clown, dancing around just for the sake of entertaining people. Let's take an example of this. You are going to some random mall, and you met a clown. He is able to make you laugh, get your attention, and you are just happy for that day. Get it? Now what do you think of that? Most of you, will think like "Ohh what a nice clown he is"... But, will you want to go out with him? Probably NO... Why? Because even though he is attractive, there is no point in going out with him BECAUSE he does not know anything about you. Will you share your problem with him? Heck NO, you just met him...

To sum it up, without comfort, you will be the dancing monkey because you will just be there to entertain her. You won't be able to going out with her because she does not know you. In other word, you are Fucked... Therefore, I'm here to teach you how to create a comfort between the both of you in my next post