Ego in English Dictionary means "Identity". It is how people perceive you as a person. Rich people or Famous people said to have a big ego. Which means that they don't want to be seen as a "dumb" or "loser" or whatever that is bad. Why? Because they don't want their names to be ruined.
Now why do I said to drop your ego? If you are a person that have everything in your life and you are happy with it, then fine, keep your ego high, nobody cares about it anyway. But if you are not happy with your life, especially Love Life, then drop your ego!
Here's an example
You don't have any girlfriend and you are a student or a working adult. You saw this girl in the supermarket and she looks like the perfect girl for you. And the thought of "I wanna get to know her" pops up in your mind. If you don't drop your ego, you will think something like "Ohhh shit! I wanna get to know her But, there are so many people in the supermarket. What IF I was seen by my classmates? What IF the girl rejects me and people laugh at me?"
In the end, what did you get?You get to masturbate thinking about her. Congrats!!!!
If you drop your ego and try to talk to the girl, you will have a chance to know her. Even if it's only 1%, isn't that worth it to drop your ego and talk to this girl?
What are the worst things that actually could happens?
What are the worst things that actually could happens?
1. She said "No thank you", you walk away and life goes on
2. You were seen by people but, they won't give a fuck about you
3. People laugh at you, but you are not gonna stick with them anyway
4. If a friend saw you, they will think you are a baws
To be honest, what you need is only a single person that can accept you for who you are. Let's say you have 1% chance to success if you talk to a random cute girls. Mathematically, if you talk to 100 of girls, 1 of them is bound to like you for who you are. The question is, is that worth it?
You get rejected by 99 girls, but 1 out of the 100 girls will totally love you for who you are.
Isn't that worth it to drop your ego and get rejected 99 times?
I'm not saying you should get rejected 99 times. What I'm saying is drop your ego and talk to the girls that you really like. Sooner or later you will find that perfect girl that loves you for who you are
To be honest, what you need is only a single person that can accept you for who you are. Let's say you have 1% chance to success if you talk to a random cute girls. Mathematically, if you talk to 100 of girls, 1 of them is bound to like you for who you are. The question is, is that worth it?
You get rejected by 99 girls, but 1 out of the 100 girls will totally love you for who you are.
Isn't that worth it to drop your ego and get rejected 99 times?
I'm not saying you should get rejected 99 times. What I'm saying is drop your ego and talk to the girls that you really like. Sooner or later you will find that perfect girl that loves you for who you are
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