How to Make Attraction [Inner Game]

As stated, I'm not gonna be a dick and let you live in mystery of "HOW THE FUCK CAN I GET ATTRACTION?"

Out of all the love's elements, attraction is the easiest to make...
First of all, I want to let you all know that you DO NOT have to be funny... If you are a funny person to begin with, then that's good. It's a plus point for you. BUT, for those assholes that ARE NOT funny to begin with, DO NOT fake it... Girls can tell that you are being somebody else and give you a free ticket to "weirdo zone".


"SO WHAT SHOULD I DO THEN??"


Let's begin with the most basic. This is something that you should have inside yourself before going for the technique to make attraction. Without the foundation, technique will be meaningless.

Be Confidence
Easier said than done? Confidence will come to you if you are comfortable with yourself. "How do I get comfortable with myself?" Basically, you have to be yourself. I have explained this in the previous post. To get more information on "Be Yourself", visit my post http://orangepua.blogspot.sg/2012/08/be-your-self-to-extreme.html... However, for those lazy ass out there, I'll still be kind and give you a brief description. Basically, be proud of who you are and do not ever apologize for what you are. Do NOT think that you are weird. If you are a gamer, admit that you are a gamer and be proud of it. This will give you the boost of confidence and confidence itself is attractive. For girls, confidence is one of the top things that they look from men.

Vocal Projection

Pitch

"It is not WHAT you say, but HOW you say"... This quote explain everything. I can't give you example due to I'm not able to record my voice, but imagine that there are two condition happening to you. Lets say you are walking in the mall, and suddenly a super hot girl come to you and ask a question.
"Where is the starbucks?"
"Oh, its over there, and at the corner you turn left", with a high pitch voice.
The reason you are using high pitch voice is actually because you are trying to make her like you. But its actually counter-productive because, it set you in the lower value than her.

Now imagine stupid looking people with a non attractive face come to you and ask the same question. Probably your answer will be like
"Oh, its over there, and at the corner you turn left", but with a lower pitch voice.
The difference here is only the tonality of what you say.
You are using low pitch voice because you don't think anything of them. You don't hope them to like you and that is why you are using lower pitch voice.

Now some people might have naturally higher or naturally lower pitch voice. It does not really matter actually. What matter is when you raise your pitch, means you are lowering your value and it is NOT attractive to people. They will think you like a beggar

Pace
DO NOT talk in a very fast pace. The reason is because first it comes out as a low value, second people might not understand what you say. Let's break it one by one. Have you ever felt you are at the bottom of totem pole? And when you want to say something, you are scarred that your opinion might be cut from somebody that is on the higher totem pole? If yes, then that is normal. That's how the society works. Because of this, the lower value people will say everything they have in mind in one piece of sentence. Whereas, the higher value people will talk in slower pace because they know that they can take over the conversation however they want.

Second reason is people might not understand of what you say. And you will come across as nervous. When you are nervous, your brain will not be able to think properly. That is why people tend to have a lot to think when they are in bed because it is when their brain feel relaxed. So the next time you feel that people don't understand what you say, try to slow down. It helps you to think properly and comes out as a high value person. Remember, human like human that has higher social status.

Volume
I can't stress this enough, for heaven's sake, SPEAK LOUDER. The more people that surround yourself, the more you have to speak louder. First, because you want everybody to be able to hear what you say. If you are talking to a girl and there are A LOT of people around you, you want to speak louder. It allows other people to hear what you say to the girl and the girl will feel safe, because she knew that you are not doing anything bad to her. If you speak very soft, then she might think that you are not confident or you are planning something bad to her, like rapping.

Second reason, obviously you want her to hear what you said. If she can hear you properly, she will thinks you are confident. You speak of what you feel, without caring of what other people might think of you. And that is the most attractive traits a man can have.

Passion
Let's say you are in a class, and your teacher speak in monotone voice. What do you think of that? BORING AND SLEEPY!!
The same will happens to people that you talk to. When you speak, speak with passion. And that is why its important to speak something that you like. If you like video game, then there is nothing wrong to talk about it to girls. However, do not keep blabbering about how good you are in video game. Give her chance to talk about something too. The more things that you let her talk, the better conversationalist she will think of you.