Attraction can be triggered by a lot of things. Be funny, goofy, and so forth will surely triggers attraction. However, not all people here can be funny. So here, be prepared for a technique that has been proven worked by me.
Stories

"Do you like dog?"
"Yea, I love dog."
"Cool, so let's say we move to a new house together. What dog are we going to buy?"
See the difference? It creates a story that involving both of you. Rather than asking "What dog do you like?" which only tell about her story, you can create a story that makes her feel as if you are doing it together with her. Looks lame, but it works...
Challenge

Let say this conversation
"Hey (girl) do you like Spiderman?"
"NO, its lame... Barbie is better."
Now the average Joe here will be like "Yea you are right, spidey sucks, barbie rocks."... This kind of behavior is not attractive at all because, you are not a challenge for her. She can instantly change your mindset without any hard work. That is why "nice guy" will always stuck in a friendzone because of this very reason. The next time girl say something that you are not agree with, just challange her right away. Never ever be scared that she might angry or upset. Remember to value yourself, and do not ever put your partner on the pedestal.
Push/Pull

"Hey, you look really smart, maybe you can teach me mathematics"
"Really? Sure I can teach you..."
"On a second thought, I want to be taught by a cute girl, so you fail to be my teacher"
Bear in mind, if you say this things in a very serious and straight face, then you are a jerk. This technique must be used in a playful manner. The reason I do not use this is because my personality is not really playful.
Too much pull will make you not attractive because it makes you looks needy. The same as with too much push. Too much push will make you look like jerk that does nothing but insulting. So remember, do it together and you will get girl licking your boots
Be Mysterious
Have you ever meet a person that display really little about themself? And that actually make you want to know more about them? The same applies to girl/boy. Mysterious and unpredictable is attractive because of the very same reasons. Unpredictable does not make you looks boring because they will never be able to guess what are you going to do or think.
This is very simple. Simply do not give all detail about yourself.
"Hey where are we going to eat?"
The easy way to be stupid and does not look mysterious is by telling her where are you going to eat.
So how to be mysterious and not predictable?
By not telling her where are you going. Simple as that, but do not do this to an extreme that she do not know anything about you. The point is, make her work to get what she want.
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