Why Attraction is Important?

Have you ever had a crush and when you confess to them, they will say "Thanks you are a nice guy, but I don't want to ruin our relationship... So let's just stay as what we are.." or "I think of you like brother"??

If you had, then you just get rejected, indirectly... The true meaning behind those words is "You are a nice guy but I just don't feel any attraction towards you"

So what happened here is you lack of attraction to attract your "future partner". You and your partner might always share problem, thoughts and so on with each other. But after all that, you thought she loves you back, you confess to her... "I...Love you, do you want to be my girlfriend?"... Then she replied like the quote at the beginning of paragraph...

To answer the question of the tittle, attraction is important because it is like a magnet. It makes the person feel want to be with you, not just mentally but also physically... Without attraction, you guys will just be friends forever. Well, best friends at Max, not gonna be more than that. The next time you want to get somebody to love you, remember that you have to attract them to like you first... To put it simply, without attraction, you will be putting yourself into the "Friendzone" because she will think "Ohh he is such a nice guy, he always be there when I need him... So if he become my boyfriend and we end up break up, it's going to be awkward. So... let's just put him in the friendzone, just in case I need someone to talk to, he will be there".... That's life bro.... 

Think about it like this, will you be interested to go out with a dull boring guy? Let's say you wanna hang out to a mall, with your friend. He is super boring and can't do a shit. He talks really soft, insecure, and apologize every single minute... Will you even be interested to get to know anything about his life?
HECK NO!! He is so boring he can just fuck himself...

Will you want to go out with them again? HECK NO!! I'd rather FAP than going out with people like that. So get the point now? Without Attraction, they won't spend time with you, or even interested to get to know you. That's why attraction is really an important elements in dating.

In terms of Picking Up, without attraction then she will not interested to get to know you.
For example,
"What's your hobby?"
"Sleep"
"Tell me something special about yourself"
"Nothing special"
See, that's what you will get if you try to have a conversation without attraction. In other words, attraction is like something that you must have before going to rapport or comfort.